Terri McHendry

1991 - 2008
LocationDundee
Age17 years
Date of Birth02/02/1991
Date of Death8/2008
Visitors2,400 since 31/08/2008
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Terri left us to join the angles in heaven in august 2008 nearly a year as gone and we all still miss her every day.

she ment alot to me terri did we used to hang around together on clepy road in dundee.
there were alot of us at that time
we used to have a drink together, i remeber going up to her house in lochee and my gran wouldnt let me stay over but it was a party all the time

we all had great laughs together
i hurts to sit and write stuff about her just thinking that she is nolonger with us BUT she will always be in our heart

love and miss you terri

xxxxxxxxxx

save a spot for all us up in heaven
and watch over us as we will always be looking up to the sky for you

xxxxxxxxxx

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MISS YOU WITH EVERY BEAT OF MY HEART TEZ

The hills, the valleys
and the bends.
Going up and down each day,
wondering if my heart will mend.

Sure, the pain will lessen
and I'll genuinely smile once more
but the emptiness will stay
and my heart will forever be sore.

You were all I ever wanted
and now you'll never be.
You were going to be my future
now that has ceased for me.

I can't help this feeling
of feeling so alone,
but I just can't talk about it
I don't want to be a moan.

So I'll keep writing
and talking to you in my mind.
Until we meet one day
and then true joy I will find.

I'm not saying
it's going to be soon,
even if it's years from now
my joy will be over the moon.

i miss you babygirl so much, hope ur looking after ur dad and him u,, i love you with every beat of my heart xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

June 7, 2010

terri,my shining star

THE MOST AMAZING STAR.........
LOOK TOWARDS THE SKIES AND YOU WILL SEE THE MOST AMAZING STAR
GLOWING SO BRIGHT AND BEAUTIFUL TO SHOW US ALL JUST WHERE YOU ARE
THE STARS GOLDEN BEAUTY IS SO CLEAR AND SO BRIGHT
I KNOW THAT THIS STAR WILL SHINE SO BRIGHT ALL NIGHT
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WHILE THE WORLD IS SLEEPING THIS SPECIAL STAR WILL STILL GLOW
BECAUSE IT IT MORE THAN A STAR IT IS A BEAUTIFUL ANGELS HALO
ITS SITS SO FULL OF BEAUTY BESIDE THE GLOWING MOON
ANOTHER ANGEL THAT LEFT THIS EARTH FAR TOO SOON........
copyright Rosalind Roberts 5/6/2010

Shine on baby always and forever, loved forever ,forgotten never, i miss you xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

June 6, 2010

my precious babygirl

My Most Precious Angel


Picking up the pieces of my broken heart.....
The task is rather daunting, I don't know where to start.....
I hold onto the memories and handle them with care.....
The emptiness and anguish is just too much to bare.....
There is nothing left inside of me except the tears I cry.....
'They' say it will get 'easier' as time passes by.....
The time we spent together, I will always hold so dear.....
You were taken from me much too soon,
we had still so much to share.....
Each day is full of sadness, bitterness and grief.....
I'm trying hard to 'let you go' but I am still in disbelief.....
You told me to find happiness and peace when you are gone.....
It's your presence and your strength I need, if I must carry on.....
Comfort only you can give me, may help the pain depart.....
Your loving me 'eternally', can mend my broken heart.....
Someday we'll be together to see that setting sun.....
Until then, you're my Angel.....
The Most Precious One!

joyce ebrecht

missin you babes every day,i love you xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

April 23, 2010

your always in my heart tez

If all the stars fall from your sky
And you don’t know what to do
Just reach down deep inside your heart
I’ll be waiting there for you

I’m close as your next heartbeat
And within your heart I’ll stay
I will be there when you need me
I will never walk away

If your burdens become heavy
And they seem too much to bear
You know that I will share your load
I will always be there

Always in the background
And it is there I’ll stay
Until the day you call my name
I wont be far away

I will be in the sunshine
As it shines upon your face
When you feel its warmth, remember me
I’ll be waiting in my place

I will be there in the soft breeze
As it dances ‘cross your skin
So quietly I’ll be there
Like a whisper in the wind

So if the stars fall from your sky
And you don’t know what to do
Just look for me inside your heart
I’ll be waiting there for you

Copyright� Allison Chambers Coxsey 1996

love you baby xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

April 21, 2010

TERRI

Just for today I will try to live through the next 24 hours
and not expect to get over my child's death,
but instead learn to live with it, just one day at a time.
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Just for today I will remember my child's life, not just her death,
and bask in the comfort of all those treasured days
and moments we shared.
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Just for today I will forgive the people
who didn't help or comfort me the way I needed them to.
They truly did not know how.
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Just for today I will smile no matter how much I hurt on the inside,
for maybe if I smile a little,
my heart will soften and I will begin to heal.
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Just for today I will reach out to comfort a relative or friend of my child,
for they are hurting too,
and perhaps we can help each other.
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Just for today I will free myself from my self-inflicted burden of guilt,
for deep in my heart I know if there was anything in this world
I could of done to save my child from death,
I would have done it.
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Just for today I will honour my child's memory
by doing something with another child
because I know that would make my own child proud.
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Just for today I will offer my hand in friendship
to another bereaved parent
for I do know how they feel.
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Just for today when my heart feels like breaking,
I will stop and remember that grief is the price we pay for loving
and the only reason I hurt is because
I had the privilege of loving her so much
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Just for today I will not compare myself with others.
I am fortunate to be who I am
and have had my child for as long as I did.
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Just for today I will allow myself to be happy,
for I know that I am not deserting her by living on.
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Just for today I will accept that I did not die when my child did,
my life did go on,
and I am the only one who can make that life worthwhile once more.
by Penny Cartier -Melissa Cartier's mother
♥ .•*★★*•.. ♥ .•*★ ★*•.. ♥ .•*★ ★*•..

Miss you baby more than words can say,always in my thoughts,always in my heart,love you xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

April 21, 2010

missin you always

THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE........
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THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE WAS THE DAY THAT I LOST YOU
I FELT SO LOST AND LONLEY I DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO
IT WAS LIKE SOME KIND OF NIGHTMARE I KNOW I FELL APART
RIGHT AT THAT VERY MOMENT I FELT MY HEART JUST BREAK APART
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I TOOK YOU COLD HAND AND HELD IT SO TIGHT TO ME
BLINDED BY ALL MY TEARS I COULD NOT EVEN SEE
I KNOW I FELL DOWN TO MY KNEES AND I SCREAMED JUST COME BACK TO ME
BUT YOU HAD ALREADY GONE TO THE LAND WHERE ALL ARE FREE
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NOW YOU LIVE WITH ALL OF THE ANGELS I STILL LIVE MY NIGHTMARE EVERYDAY
SOME TIMES I AM STILL LOST FOR WORDS I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY
I JUST HOPE YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU NOW YOU FOREVER LIVE IN MY HEART
IF I HAD TO DISCRIBE THE WAY I FELT RIGHT NOW I WOULD NOT KNOW WHERE TO START
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I HOPE ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER IN THE PROMISED LAND
THAT YOU WILL BE THE ONE WHO COMES TO TAKE MY HAND
UNTIL THEN MY ANGEL I WILL TRY TO BE STRONG AND WAIT FOR YOU
MY HEART WILL NEVER BE WHOLE AGAIN UNTIL THE DAY I JOIN YOU TOO.........
copyright Rosalind Roberts 5/3/2010
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Loved you then love you still,always have always will, i miss you babes xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

March 7, 2010

always in my heart babygirl

You Walk Beside me Every Day.


The days are long without you here, I've sat and cried a thousand tears,
that cruel fate did my life destroy and take away my lovely girl.
But you can wipe my tears away, you walk beside me every day.

The looming years that, more or less, just fill me with unhappiness,
are speckled with some happy times, when rainbows brighten up the skies.
I know you're never far away, you walk beside me every day.

There will be anniversaries and celebrations that you'll miss,
Oh, Terri, how we'll miss you then, your booming laugh, your cheeky grin.
But you'll be there, you'll find a way, you walk beside us every day.

Sometimes I dream that I'm awake and find it's all a big mistake,
That you are here, you're safe and well! with hugs and smiles and tales to tell!
And in my mind I hear you say, "I walk beside you, every day."

The road ahead is hard and steep, with hills to climb and furrows deep,
and life will never be as good as when you, here beside us, stood.
But we beleive that here you stay, you walk beside us every day.

At night you gently touch my cheek and memories are mine to keep,
of my sweet daughter, so deeply missed, since that first day your head I kissed.
Inside my heart forever stay and walk beside every day.


TRACY LAMONT.

Miss you more than words baby,its so hard to be without you,you were the light in my life that kept me going and i have to believe that your still with me or there would be no point in going on,i keep you close in my heart,love you always will babes, mum xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

February 19, 2010

MY SHINING STAR

♥ You Meant So Much ♥

You meant so much to all of us
You were special and that's no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky
♥♫CA♥
Your smile alone warmed hearts
Your laugh was like music to hear
I would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near
♥♫CA♥
Not a second passes
When you're not on our minds
Your love we will never forget
The hurt will ease in time
♥♫CA♥
Many tears I have seen and cried
They have all poured out like rain
I know that you are happy now
And no longer in any pain

♥ by Cassie Mitchell♥

Missin you more than words can say baby,love you always,mum xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

February 19, 2010

Loved you then,love you still,always have,always will

I have a special treasure chest
It’s deep inside of me
It’s where I keep the memories
Of how life used to be
Memories of me and you
All the things we used to do
Places we’ve been
Things we’ve seen

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I can relive the memories
Any time I want
All I have to do is close my eyes
And you are here with me

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No more memories for us to make
As you are in heaven
And I’m still on earth
Our beautiful memories of the past
Will forever and ever last
To see me through my lonely, empty days

❤Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤

Copyright Leza 6/2/2010

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Missin you always baby,lovin you forever xxxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

February 7, 2010

you were my gift from heaven,my shining star

Life is a gift not ours to keep,
A seed unsown and yet we still reap.

Here for only a very short while,
The heavenly reality of an earthly denial.

Like a flickering light here and then gone,
The essence of what love is based upon.

Birth and death the beginning and end,
As one heart breaks another one mends.

What was never ours is no more,
Returning to whom it belonged before?

Tear filled eyes silence the heart,
As body and spirit slowly part.

Life is a journey from first breath to last,
Memories left behind in the eternal past.

The here and now releases becoming a remember when,
Replanting the seed so that a new harvest can begin.

With trembling hands love says good-bye,
But still the heart can't help but ask, "Why God Why?"

A heavenly destination will be reached this day,
And in a garden for angels another spirit will awaken to play.

Lisa Calk Jenkins, Euless, Texas

I loved you then and i love you still,i always have and i always will,miss you baby xxx

Linda McHendry (Mum)

February 7, 2010
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